Did you read the last post? Wasn't Deze a fool? All she needed to do was go with the man and end the war hunger and hardship experienced at that time. Why did she choose to run away? Is it an integrity thing? Is integrity part of survival? What do you all think? Comments welcome.
I read that post and its super terrific. Deze is a smart fast thinker, in short she is a wife material am looking for such a wife,but d problem is just that its difficult to come by a Deze . I need a Deze so as to be A SURVIVOR .
ReplyDeleteHa ha ha! I wish you your heart's desire. But is there a guarantee that you will not kill the Survivor spirit in her when she eventually gets married to you? You know what I mean, the African cultural thing. You know, your attacker could be your culture so you got to look beyond your attacker for you to be a survivor.
ReplyDeleteNo way d african thing can never . U see that's where education comes in. When a man is educated all those wrong notions will leave him.
ReplyDeleteI forgot to add something in my last comment. Their this age long scorge that has eaten deep into the fabrics of our system. Its called the "osu cast" system . Madam I know ur from Igbo land and u must have had alot of experiencess on that. Have u written any book on osu? Pls madam am Imploring u to use your blog to fight this nonsense scourge. It has caused so many marriage and social problems. Pls help us madam .
ReplyDeleteYou have given me an idea. The best way to deal with this unfortunate cultural malady is to do a book on it. Watch out!
ReplyDeleteThe whole caste system is so baseless it should be done away with.